At Upgrade Your Marriage, we believe you don't have to be bigger, faster, stronger, or smarter to have a thriving marriage. Instead, we harness the power of attachment research, neuroscience, and experiential learning to unlock what has already been built into you, so you become free to build into each other.
In Holland, Michigan, we are the only practice that specializes in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), the only place that offers Hold Me Tight®, and the only place in the entire state to offer a 4 day marriage intensive based on EFT and experiential therapy.
You built your relationship from the ground up. You made a home together, invested in your family together, dreamed together about a future that was supposed to be bright.
You’ve already put countless hours into trying to mend the wounds, close the gap, but the distance keeps growing. You still don’t feel seen or accepted. Despair might feel like it is the new foundation of your marriage.
You already know “nothing changes if nothing changes” and it’s terrifying to imagine where that road ends. Is there another way? Something that solves the real problem and doesn’t constantly demand that I be more of this or less of that?
There is a way…and it’s easier than you think.
Discover how you can be you and still have an awesome marriage