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MARRIAGE INTENSIVES

At Upgrade Your Marriage, we believe you don't have to be bigger, faster, stronger, or smarter to have a thriving marriage. Instead, we harness the power of attachment research, neuroscience, and experiential learning to unlock what has already been built into you, so you become free to build into each other.

 

In Holland, Michigan, we are the only practice that specializes in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), the only place that offers Hold Me Tight®, and the only place in the entire state to offer a 4 day marriage intensive based on EFT and experiential therapy.

 

LEARN MORE ABOUT US

Why go on a marriage intensive?

You built your relationship from the ground up. You made a home together, invested in your family together, dreamed together about a future that was supposed to be bright.

You built a life together…and now it’s falling apart.

You’ve already put countless hours into trying to mend the wounds, close the gap, but the distance keeps growing. You still don’t feel seen or accepted. Despair might feel like it is the new foundation of your marriage.

You’ve tried to move forward…but can’t find the way

You already know “nothing changes if nothing changes” and it’s terrifying to imagine where that road ends. Is there another way? Something that solves the real problem and doesn’t constantly demand that I be more of this or less of that?
There is a way…and it’s easier than you think.

++Benefits++

  • COMMUNICATION
  • RESPECT
  • CONFLICT RESOLUTION
  • CLOSENESS, UNITY, & TEAMWORK
  • HEALING, TRUST, & GROWTH
  • POSITIVE MEMORIES
  • RECONCILIATION
  • RECONNECTION

PACKAGES & OPTIONS

Discover how you can be you and still have an awesome marriage

Upgrade your marriage

$975

**Currently Unavailable**
  • 4 days
  • 24 hrs of guidance and learning (equivalent to 5-6 months of therapy)
  • Restful and nurturing environment
  • Group synergy**
  • Experiential exercises and adventures
  • Multiple learning approaches
  • Lodging provided
  • Most meals provided
  • 2 free phone consultations after the intensive
  • Most intensive way to build into your marriage

Hold Me Tight

most popular!

$550

PER COUPLE
  • 2 days
  • 15 hrs of strategic learning (equivalent to about 3 months of therapy)
  • supportive, safe, and Synergistic environment
  • Individual guidance from EFT trained therapists during the workshop
  • 7 research proven Experiential Exercises
  • Most efficient way to build into your marriage

Marriage Therapy

Cost Varies

BY INSURANCE
  • Weekly sessions with a marriage expert
  • Individualize attention
  • Flexible scheduling
  • Most sustainable way to build into your marriage